Out of State Students

As an out of state student from Memphis, Tennessee I can attest to the advantages and disadvantages of living far from home. The University of Arkansas was appealing to me not only because of the academics, but because it is a college that not everyone from my hometown attends and was going to be a new experience for me. I am so glad I chose the University of Arkansas because it has introduced me to so many new people and experiences.

While going away to college can be a big transition for many students, it can also be an incredible learning experience as it increases their sense of independence and pushes them outside their comfort zones. Personally, I have found that being away from home makes me appreciate it more when I have the opportunity to go back. Further, while I love going back home to visit with family and friends, it is also nice to make my way back to my home away from home here in Fayetteville. I have also met a number of really great people that also come from Memphis here at Arkansas, so it is a fun conversation starter and a wonderful way to meet new people.

My favorite part about going out of state for school is that it opens you up to a brand new environment, new atmosphere, and best of all, new people. It also gives your students a chance to start with a clean slate. I have met so many new people at the University of Arkansas and made many lasting friendships.

The one hard part of going out of state for school is being so far from home. Homesickness is real and it does happen. Homesickness is usually the most prevalent in the third week of school, especially in the first year. The best thing to do when your student gets homesick is to visit them or have them come home for a weekend. Also try not to ask your student questions like “are you homesick yet”, because sometimes they may not even realize they are homesick until their parents bring it up. Every once in a while students need a break from college life and a call or visit from their parents is all they need to rejuvenate. A great time to come visit is during Family Weekend in the fall! Family Weekend is a fun opportunity to spend quality time with your student while meeting other families as well.

Having your student go away for college can be hard, but it is a growing experience for both you and your student. Going to an out of state school for college was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made and I hope your students feel the same way!